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Cora Dean's avatar

Wrote this as a bubbled over vent in the conversation group… I’m new to Substack. Anyway posting it here too, apologies to anyone reading it twice but I’ve been keeping this inside a long time.

I went to college with her and lived in a shared dorm apartment with her sophomore year. I haven’t read any of her recent writing, because I didn’t like her then and from the random quotes I see here and there she’s gone from her college rage baiting to just utter toxicity. She was in a relationship with Kate McKinnon (of SNL fame) when I knew her, but I guess they broke up and she must have gone down an increasingly right wing path. Too bad the people who rub shoulders with her now would have turned their backs on the person she was when I first met her.

I always felt uncomfortable after a late night conversation we had where she explained to me in detail why it was so important to make sure traditional Jewish communities in Africa never were exposed to outside influences because it meant they maintained a more “pure” form of Judaism. She was utterly shocked when I said that I didn’t think it would be terrible, if they were interested, to offer young people from any culture where (for example) a cd player is banned an object from the outside, and that young people should be free to make their own decisions about whether they want to continue living in a traditional way or make other choices. That many people would gladly choose a traditional culture over a modern one, if the values it holds are strong. I grew up in a household where cultural studies and anthropology were big topics, and a major theme of my own studies has been the resilience of traditional cultures in the face of modernism and cultural supremacy/ erasure.

I just remember how what felt like an honest late night college conversation one second suddenly felt like a bizarre litmus test—the inauthenticity of her deeply shocked reaction to my open responses to her questions. It felt manipulative and weird.

I also remember the way she ran into my room to tell me the guy I was dating had a very famous and important mother, as if she was doing me a huge favour instead of just making me incredibly uncomfortable by implying that I should be happy and I could be benefiting from our association or something like that… I knew from the beginning that this was a person who cared very deeply about becoming famous and I can see how she saw a pathway to that through hate speech and racism, and why she has been rampantly and falsely accusing people of anti-Semitism when she is fully aware of how wrong she is.

She was deeply unlikeable, even in a relationship with a cool, popular actor in our college and knowing lots of interesting people, and it’s clear that she eventually realised that doubling down on her unlikeablility would be her ticket to fame. That’s what Trump is right? And Vance and all these guys? That’s their ticket—the whole “we want you to hate us, we want you to be repulsed! The people who feel hated and repulsive will eat us up!” She is culpable, for the rest of her life, of having helped write the playbook they’re following.

My last college memory of her was hearing about her instigating witch hunts against professors who didn’t agree with her increasingly right wing politics. She started her own paper (since the college ones weren’t very interested in her writing) literally just to get a more right wing vehicle for her hate speech. And that’s what she ended up using it for. Destroying careers and now, apparently, much worse.

This is a very shallow and dangerous person who has limited depth and a desire for fame that runs so deep that she doesn’t care who gets hurt in the process.

I’ve still only read a few quotes from her writing here and there and have zero interest in reading more. I’ve never written about my encounters with her in college before because we had mutual friends who spoke up on her behalf and tried to convince me she wasn’t fully responsible for her actions, that she had been brainwashed or something, but that argument only goes so far.

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I subscribed to TFP almost 1 year ago today, because I was attracted to the promise of balanced coverage and perspective (and note of the Fox News variety). Some of their content was really interesting, and kept me coming back. But as I continued paying attention, I began to see the bias. Sure, they throw some red meat content out for the libs (tofu perhaps?) But I began to see a distinct and specific alt right bias, whose presence was perhaps softened but Weiss’ own identity as gay, female and Jewish, but ultimately apologetic to the creep of the worst elements of the right coming into the mainstream.

Spending time in the comments section on TFP articles really cemented the view that this was a right wing apologist publication, draped in a thin veneer of centrist perspective. While I’ve encountered some intelligent perspectives in the comments, I mostly encountered people ranging from typical Fox News viewers, to essentially proto-Nazi provocateurs.

I’ve since cancelled my subscription, and blocked their stuff from my feed. In the time since, I’ve realized just how much great content is out here on Substack that is truly independent, with a diversity of perspective. I no longer believe in paying Weiss for the privilege of reading her pre-packaged version of fair and balanced, supported by the billionaires with whom she hobnobs. She is, and continues to be a part of the actual elites in this country… building an alt-media empire in service of the destruction of liberal democracy.

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